Time Off?

I am more than a little insulted by the comment I’ve heard more than once in the past two months, “Are you enjoying your time off?”  Seriously?  Is that what you think I am doing?

I’m a full-time caregiver.  I resigned my position at school because my husband needed my support at home.   We were fortunate that he could come to work with me and offer his services as a volunteer so that I could keep an eye on him and not leave him home alone.  It was a quick fix, and while he still volunteers when he is able, taking him to work with me was not a long term solution.

Yes, I’m at home.  But guess what?  I am working.  Not only am I providing 24 hour support for my husband, I am the Volunteer Coordinator for Family Of a Vet, an AMAZING non-profit organization that is working tirelessly for veterans and familes.  FOV currently has almost 250 Grassroots Volunteers.  Through our website, facebook page, and social media we reach tens of thousands of people each month!  I am on call around the clock to provide support and resources for our members. The past two months have been filled with late FOV nights, and busy days.  Here is a run-down of what I do:

  • advocate for veterans and families
  • locate and provide resources
  • research
  • moderate group rooms online
  • offer ongoing support to our members online and through email and phone calls
  • manage the “virtual” volunteer database
  • coordinate and host the weekly Caregiver’s Edition of our Life After Combat Blog Talk Radio Show
  • coordinate with staff on projects including our blogs, fundraising, website, networking
  • use social media to raise awareness of veterans issues

I may not be working in the conventional sense, but I’m making a difference in the lives of veterans and families.  I am providing the support I wish I’d had six years ago when we started this crazy roller coaster life of uncertainty.

You may think I’m just goofing off, but actually facebook is my office. Family Of a Vet is a non-profit run by veterans and family members who *GET IT* and are trying to reach out to others who are struggling like us to help and offer support and education.

Shared by Family Of a Vet, Inc., a national non-profit 501(c)3 organization dedicated to helping veterans and their families learn how to cope with PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), TBI (traumatic brain injury) and life after combat through real-world, plain language education and resources for heroes, families, and communities.
 
If you know a veteran or loved one that we can help, please encourage them to visit us:
 
On the web – www.familyofavet.com 
On Blog Talk Radio – www.blogtalkradio.com/familyofavet

4 responses to “Time Off?

  • TorreyLisa

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  • TorreyLisa

    Amen, sister! I am so glad you wrote this because I get this a lot too. I am busier now than when I worked more than fulltime hours outside the home. And when you consider the fact we do this as volunteers for the betterment of our wounded warrior community, no one has room to speak if they aren't doing the same (pulling all-nighters if they have to in order to keep up!). We sure as hell don't sit around eating bon-bons all day. There is real work to be done!Keep up the amazing work you are doing, my friend. You rock.

  • Melissa

    Thanks Torrey!! I know you of all people understand. Thanks for all you do for others 🙂

  • Lost in the VA Purgatory

    You tell them girl, we don't do nothing more than go shopping and spend ALL the money they are getting from the VA…lmao…people wake up…Love you…wouldn't know what to do without you sometimes 🙂

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